passionate and excited about you when you first
meet, but then "cool off" quickly the more you
get to know each other?
Are men just into "the chase" and lose interest
once they sense that they "have" you, or is there
something else going on?
The truth is that a man will remain intrigued and
excited but ONLY IF he feels something more than
everyday "physical" attraction for you. Physical
attraction is something any man can feel at the
drop of a hat; it's really nothing special.
But do you know what the "other" type of
attraction is that a man can feel for a woman?
Why do men so often fall into a state of boredom
with great women? Because they're simply not
feeling that "gut level" of attraction for you,
the kind that goes BEYOND the physical and into
the emotional.
To learn how to quickly spark attraction in your
man and get him wondering and thinking about you,
read this special letter, get some free tips and
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Dear Mary cris,
Have you been feeling overwhelmed and burned
out from all the responsibilities and tasks you do
day in and day out, so that you barely have any
time or energy to put into taking care of YOURSELF
or figuring out what it is YOU need in order to
feel fulfilled and happy - whether in your
relationship, your career, or just in LIFE?
It's very easy to let weeks, months and even
YEARS go by while you're busy checking off your
daily to-do lists and then wake up one day and ask
yourself,
"Who am I, what am I doing with my life?" and
then on top of it realize, "What happened to my
LOVE LIFE??"
I hear this from women ALL THE TIME - they get
into a relationship, they focus so much on trying
to make it "work" or being what they think the man
wants them to be...
Or they get so totally busy with life's little
details, that when the relationship finally ends
and they are forced to look at what they really
want out of life, they realize they had LOST THEIR
WAY.
They stopped being their authentic selves
and suppressed their dreams because they had spent
years ignoring what it is their soul was really
yearning to be.
So when the relationship they were in ends,
they begin to feel as if they are "waking up" to
who they really are and what they want for
themselves.
To find how to re-connect to your authentic
self so you never again have to feel like you've
LOST YOURSELF inside a relationship, especially
if you're in a relationship now that's draining
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IT ALL, why it's dangerous for relationship
happiness, and how to get out of this destructive
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problem).
> The #1 reason why men will lose passion for you
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Here's an important question.
Does a relationship have to END in order for
you to find yourself again?
Isn't there a way to stay in touch with who
you are and what you really want and need in life,
while staying in a relationship and making that
relationship WORK to bring out your authentic
self?
The answer is YES, THERE IS.
I'm going to show you how in this email.
The question I want to ask you right now is,
are you being as true to yourself right now as you
can be?
Is your relationship with your man the most
passionate, connected and HONEST that it can be?
If you're not feeling as connected to your
true and best self right now, I will give you some
tips on how you can start on the RIGHT PATH to
"getting your groove back" and becoming a
happier, more fulfilled person, no matter what is
happening in your life right now.
No matter if you're in a relationship that
works, or you're single, or if you're having
issues in your relationship that are standing in
the way of your happiness...
These tips will enable you to:
-WAKE UP that youthful and playful woman you used
to be. If you've "lost" your inner playfulness,
you probably spend a lot of time feeling
judgmental, pessimistic and tired in your
head.
- Getting back in touch with that playful part
of your soul will allow you to enjoy life no
matter what it's throwing your way.
-Get what you want out of your relationships -
more honesty, more attention, more fun, more
sharing.
-Stop feeling ENVIOUS of other women who have
better bodies, better boyfriends, better love
lives, more money or less stress.
Are you ready to get back out there with 3
simple tips? Great, here we go.
Tip #1: STOP BEING SO SERIOUS. TRY SILLY
Do you ever feel worried that you're not
being the perfect friend, partner, or mother?
Does worrying about whether or not you're
doing things the RIGHT way make you feel defensive
and uptight about every little thing that doesn't
go the way you think it should go?
These are symptoms of having lost your "inner
child" and your ability to just LET GO and enjoy
and accept yourself and your life for what it IS,
not for what you think it "should" be.
When you take a deep breath and do something
SILLY and spontaneous for a change, it will open
you up in ways you can't even imagine.
Kick off your shoes and go running through the
grass.
Dance with your child and spin them around
until they're dizzy with laughter.
Start a food fight in your kitchen with your
boyfriend.
These are all ways to let go of all the
"should's" in your life and just live in the
moment.
Here's the problem with those "should's" by
the way.
They keep you from being true to who you
really are, deep inside, because you're constantly
worrying about what OTHER people think.
If you get stuck there too long, pretty soon
you'll start to feel like you don't know who you
are or what will make you happy.
So do something silly and spontaneous and
don't worry about how you'll look or what people
will think. Just be your true self.
TIP #2: GIVE WHAT YOU'RE YEARNING FOR
Let's say you haven't gone out with your
girlfriends in a long, long time. And you feel
disconnected.
Or maybe your man hasn't made any special
date plans for what seems like weeks, and you're
in a low-energy rut in your relationship.
Or you're single and feeling pretty lonely and
down and wish you could find a decent man to share
your time with.
Instead of complaining to yourself about how
your friends aren't calling you, or your man isn't
being romantic or caring, or how hard it is to
meet a man, make it a point to actually start
GIVING the exact thing you want.
Call your friends and invite them to do
something you enjoy doing together.
Plan a weekend getaway with your man and
surprise him with it.
Smile and be engaging to everyone you
encounter in your day - the grocery store clerk,
your co-workers, your boss, your neighbors - and
you'll be amazed at how much less isolated and
lonely you'll feel.
And the best part about GIVING what you want
for yourself is that you get so much MORE back
in the long run.
When you put yourself "in service" to others,
by helping them, by really LISTENING instead of
just talking, by offering your advice or talents
to make their lives better and happier, you will
begin to feel more fulfilled and valued - and
happy - and you will begin to reap the rewards
for all that positive energy immediately.
Tip # 3 TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE
When you take care of your own needs and your
own future, you will feel less envious of the
people around you who you think have it easier
and better than you have.
Here's something I've noticed about others -
even about myself sometimes - the things that you
ENVY in others are the things you know you're
neglecting in your OWN life.
Your envy is a sign that you are denying that
aspect of yourself and that you need to pay more
attention to it and fix it in yourself.
For example, if you seethe with
self-righteousness and envy over every single
well-dressed, sexy woman who walks by you and your
man, it's probably likely that you aren't feeling
so hot about yourself.
Maybe you know you haven't put as much effort
into your appearance and well-being as you should,
so instead of admitting that to yourself you feel
a deep sense of negativity and envy for anyone you
perceive as having it "more together" in that
area.
The same can be said for things like wealth
and success. If you envy someone's success, it's
probably because you know you're not doing
everything you can to create that personal success
in your own life.
You know you're not doing everything you
should to make yourself happy. It doesn't have to
be about money.
The key to feeling less envy and less
negativity toward others is to BE HONEST about
your shortcomings and then take responsibility
for your own life to get things back on track.
So what do these 3 tips have in common?
They are all about refocusing your attention
and energy away from the destructive, negative
feelings and thought patterns that make you feel
inauthentic and down about your life, and
turning things around so that you get back in
touch with that deeper, WISER part of yourself
so you can feel happier and less STAGNANT.
One of the BENEFITS of learning how to get
back in touch with your authentic self and
accessing that "inner child" - besides just
feeling better about yourself - is that it makes
you more ATTRACTIVE and draws a man to you.
You see, when it comes to being the kind of
woman that a man really wants, simply "being nice"
and accommodating, or being predictable and doing
and saying the same things the same way every day,
will quickly put you in the "she's not the one"
category in a man's mind.
Here's the scary part - once you fall into
that category, you can get STUCK in there forever.
You don't want a man to think that he can
find someone else who will make him feel the
passion and excitement that he used to feel - but
isn't feeling anymore.
You want to be the kind of woman who INSPIRES
a man's deepest and most powerful feelings of love
and devotion...simply through the things you do
and say to keep him wondering and thinking about
you.
You want to be the kind of woman who sparks
the kind of emotions in a man that he can't help
but to worship and adore you, naturally and
without a lot of effort.
No "fixing," no talking about the
relationship, no convincing him that it should
be working better than it is.
It will just happen.
When you watch my "Relationship Turnaround"
CD/DVD program, it will all become crystal clear
for you. You will know what it takes to inspire
a man to be a better partner to you.
Here's where you should start:
http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/RelationshipTurnAround
Meanwhile, I hope that you start to use and
apply those 3 Tips in your life, starting today!
I'll talk to you again soon, and best of luck
in Life and Love,
Your friend,
Christian Carter
P.S. Got a man in your life but you're afraid
it's falling apart, or that he might be thinking
of leaving?
Love shouldn't feel difficult or draining.
It should feel easy and natural and
fulfilling - for you and the man you're with.
If you haven't felt good with your man in some
time, don't let another day go by without DOING
something about it.
If you do, it might be too late.
But be careful, because WHAT you do and HOW you
go about trying to change things in your
relationship is critical.
In fact, what you do can mean the difference
between pushing him further away, or bringing
him closer than ever.
Let me show you how to get the warmth and
affection back into your relationship with the
RIGHT tools here:
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