after one or a few great dates, and you don't know
why?
Do you wish you knew the secret of what to DO or
what to SAY to not only spark a man's interest,
but keep him thinking and wondering about you...
and therefore wanting to spend more time with you?
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Let me ask you something, Mary cris.
Do you feel defeated by online dating because
the men you date either grow "cold", stop
calling, or give you excuses about why they can't
"have a relationship" with you after only a few
dates?
Sometimes even confusing you because you thought
you were being relaxed and casual about things?
The early stages of online dating are filled with
such possibility.
You meet a guy you think is pretty attractive and
you have a ton in common.
But it isn't long before he starts to act "flakey"
for no apparent reason you can think of.
He tells you he's busy all the time, or he doesn't
call when he told you he would.
Which makes you feel completely rejected, or
deceived in some way.
It makes you start wondering if it's just better
to be alone than even TRY to date. It may be a
little more lonely at times, you think, but at
least it's more MANAGEABLE.
Sure, you could just give up and hope that
someday the right guy will just show up and it's
all going to work out effortlessly. But here's
the reality:
One of the BIGGEST mistakes women make in online
dating or ANY kind of dating is resigning to
their "fate" after several of these same bad
situations.
You may even start to believe that there are no
good men out there.and certainly not online. You
think that online dating is a "waste of time" or
"not for you" or that men are just a bunch of
jerks who don't appreciate a good thing (you)
when they see it.
It's a mistake because it actually leads to you
unconsciously choosing the wrong men over and
over...thus perpetuating this cycle, or worse -
Closing off to love and therefore staying single
for a long, LONG time.
In my "Meeting the One" program, I teach you
exactly how to recognize and then AVOID the common
mindsets, approaches and mistakes that are keeping
you from attracting the right men to you - or that
push the right guys away.
One of these common mistakes is what I call the
"Instant Relationship."
This is when you subconsciously have already
decided that you're in an actual RELATIONSHIP
with a man, but he has made no such decision in
HIS MIND yet.
Which has the unfortunate effect of completely
creeping a man out or simply turning him OFF from
wanting to be around you.
If you're thinking to yourself, "no, I don't do
that" then let me ask you this.
After a great date or two, do you get upset when a
man doesn't call you soon to set up another date?
And do you let him know that you're upset by the
tone of your voice or otherwise?
Do you get upset or even assume that he should
ask you out on the weekend. Let's assume you've
been on a few dates or maybe have already been
intimate.
Do you believe that sleeping with a man means that
you're a "couple" and that he shouldn't be seeing
anyone else? But you haven't talked about this
with him directly, so you can't really be sure how
HE feels about it?
If any of these sound familiar, then chances are
the "vibe" you're sending out to a guy is the KISS
OF DEATH to what could be a great relationship.
It makes a guy feel that you've already
emotionally committed to him, when he in fact is
still trying to decide if he likes you enough to
want anything serious.
Which can make him feel pressured and turned off.
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Relationship" and how you can avoid this common
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-- How to qualify the good guy and avoid the true
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-- How to make him think that you're the most
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-- How to learn the HIDDEN TRUTH about a man on
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